Sitting on a bench at Gada Park sipping boba in one hand, and scrolling through my phone chats with my other hand, I glance at the time, 4:01 pm. I open my chat with Frankie and type in 'T R A I T O R' and send it. I start the voice recorder and begin to yell all my frustration and embarrassment out at her, saying ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh for a good twelve seconds before I click send.