Smiling at MJ I continue, "Okay it's like this. I like this girl and I want to ask her to be my girlfriend and I am so nervous that I have no idea how to even go about starting to ask her. So, I was wondering, in your own opinion how someone would get said girl to become their girlfriend?" Looking a little stunned and then with an obvious saddened face MJ says, "Wow ok that is a lot to take in Peter, but I think the best way to get this girl is to first ask her on a date and see if she even says yes to that before going straight to girlfriend status."