as i see it, the FL loves conflicts with the unreasonables. why not just cut all ties with the family or just ignore them? she already had a firm standing yet she chose to play and then complain for her being tired of conflict. they have already abandond you because of the maternal family's misfortune. Why did you you go back and prolong your sufferings.. a martyr? nah, haha an idiot i think. this can't go on.. been affected by the plot, some readers might become martyrs too letting their family take advantage of their fortune but not care of the person(high)..i'm only saying it but there maybe not.. and i prefer being mysterious too, to protect oneself...but this is just a fantacy anyway so i don't have a problem with it just stating opinions...