But I could no longer hide them. My problem then was to whom should I revealed them so that my secrets would not become the latest news and public topic in the hostel. In those days, it was really hard. I began to observe my friends and I found the right person, Chungpu, the best in talking, undefeated in speaking and debate , but an Iron vault in keeping secrets. He was very wise, understanding and caring, very gifted in counselling and giving advice. I was really blessed to have a friend like him.