Elder of the Xu family, father of Xu Xiangdong. He remarried and feels guilty about it, worried his granddaughter would be disgusted. He carries deep regret about not taking Xu Sangluo and her mother with him years ago. His daughter (Xu Sangluo's mother) had a tragedy involving the Qin family. He is concerned about Xu Sangluo's relationship with Qin Zhiyi due to the absurd circumstances of their marriage, her young age, and past entanglements between the families. He recognizes Xu Sangluo's maturity and ultimately chooses not to interfere in her romantic choices.