It irritates me, but I know that the only solution is just to keep being by her side and saving her from this situation. Interestingly enough, both Illya and Noelle did not receive any such request for their hands. Illya because she once used her Berserker to knock out a fool that tried to take certain liberties with her during a party. Suffice to say, she did not care about the situation they were in as she still wanted to see the idiot's blood for trying to feel up her butt. I am proud of Illya for that one, some of these nobles only listen when they don't have teeth in their mouths to talk back it seems.