"From what I have come to understand, your family is responsible for hindering your potential. Your grandmother seems to want you to be a splitting image of your father, which is something you can never achieve. Every individual is unique as they have their own unique personality, therefore, forget trying to be Frank Longbottom because You will never be something other than yourself. You are Neville Longbottom the son of Frank and Alice Longbottom's. You inherited traits from both your parents, just like everybody does. So, Get yourself a fitting wand. Show them what you can do. And if they don't like it, ignore them. I've heard that you're good at Herbology. Excel there. There is nearly nothing you can't achieve if you work hard enough." Aren encouraged.