Alright, I'll say this right now. This novel is a gem, and it's difficult to find a novel similar to this. I originally didn't want to write this review, but reading the first review (from Liyu) made me write this. Every other 2* or 3* review was understandable, and I can get where they are coming from.
Let's start with **"why and how you should read this?"**
This novel is perfect for you if you enjoy light-hearted harem stories, an emotionally overpowered main character (MC), and no-nonsense drama. Sometimes things happen too quickly, and you might wonder, "Is this realistically possible?" (especially regarding the romance). To answer that, **maybe, but not likely.** It is, after all, fiction. So, let's compare it with other novels. In terms of romance, it is undoubtedly better than any Quan Tang (QT) novels (I've read almost every popular one, so I know) and better than most urban fantasy/harem novels. When I say "better," I mean "more realistic." If you read this, you'll see that the MC truly knows how to court women and be a gentleman.
I don't really think you can call the MC a disgusting person just because he stopped being a simp. Regarding the first girl, I have absolutely no idea what this guy Liyu is trying to say. Don't be mistaken. The first girl **did** have a trauma, and the essence of it is that she hates men. As the story progresses, she starts to like the MC. Yes, he ignores her at first, but the idea that the trauma was exacerbated by the MC's neglect is some next-level nonsense. She uses the trauma as an excuse to get closer to the MC, in the sense that he is the only person she doesn't hate. So, get your facts straight.
Calling the story "sh*t" is one thing, but to call the author "disgusting" is beyond the pale. Consider the author of the most infamous novel, *My Guardian Angel* (MGA), and yet you couldn't call him "disgusting."
So, again. Read this if you like light-hearted Slice of Life (SoL) harem with a strong male lead.