so I started self harm when I was around 12.. and this was because of something that happened the year before. my father passed away when I was in 6th grade and I was 11,and we all know that having a loved person pass is a very hard thing to go through. and for me it was hard, that same day started like a normal school day. i was in orchestra, like 7th period, that day we had free time and my teacher got a call from the office telling me my mom was picking me up. I thought it was my brother because he was having trouble with his eyes. when I got picked up I saw that my mom was crying... I asked what was wrong and what she told me. i was crying my heart out. she told me that my father had a heart attack.